Corporate social rules no one teaches women

I just got off of a call with somebody that I am mentoring in corporate and we were talking about work, work social and so I'm gonna share some you need to especially if you were a young woman in corporate, you need to know these things to potentially save your reputation and to also save your from some uncomfortable situations, okay? So number one is you should only have one drink per event. If you are jumping around from event to one drink per event max three per night. You don't need to overdo it at the functions, you're not out with your friends, okay? Like one per event max three per night. Keep it cute. The second thing is that you never want to stay past nine PM. Nothing good happens past then. Get out of there before and and see yourself the stress and discomfort of trying to, you know, then exit your way out of these weird colleagues or other professionals, you know, you have to see Monday through Friday. The next one has to do with coffee chats and in socials and people asking you to network and this is one that I actually struggled cause I assume that it's they they wanna know um, you know, what my perception is on the industry or what I'm working on. That's not always the case, okay? I'm not saying that everybody has malicious intent, but it's it's just not always the case. Do not book any sort of, coffee chat social past six PM. There's plenty of time during the day that you can squeeze in a 30 minute coffee chat. On top of that, no, no normal person in their right mind wants to talk about work on a Friday. So if you get asked to do a coffee chat or like a work social on a Friday evening, no.