DIALECTICAL THINKERS

DIALECTICAL THINKERS THERE'S A NAME FOR PEOPLE WHO CAN HOLD TWO PARADOXICAL TRUTHS AT THE SAME TIME DIALECTICAL THINKERS THEY UNDERSTAND THAT YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE AND KNOW YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH THEM YOU CAN FORGIVE SOMEONE AND NEVER TRUST THEM AGAIN YOU CAN BE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR LIFE AND STILL WANT IT TO CHANGE MOST PEOPLE NEED ONE SIDE TO BE WRONG SO THE OTHER SIDE CAN BE RIGHT BUT DIALECTICAL THINKERS CAN STAY INSIDE THE TENSION AND ASK WHAT IF BOTH ARE TRUE THEY CAN UNDERSTAND SOMEONE WITHOUT AGREEING WITH THEM THEY CAN QUESTION THEIR OWN BELIEFS WITHOUT ABANDONING THEMSELVES AND THEY DON'T NEED EVERY STORY TO HAVE A HERO AND A VILLAIN THAT DOESN'T MAKE THEM CONFUSED IT MAKES THEM NUANCED EMPATHETIC AND MUCH HARDER TO MANIPULATE BECAUSE REALITY IS ALMOST NEVER BLACK AND WHITE AND SOME TRUTHS ONLY BECOME VISIBLE WHEN YOU STOP FORCING REALITY TO CHOOSE A SIDE IF YOU KNOW A DIALECTICAL THINKER SEND THIS TO THEM THEY'LL PROBABLY SEE BOTH SIDES OF WHY YOU DID