Post by @thepaulasamantha

We are now married. 🥹💕 Looking back, I think one of the biggest reasons our 6-year long-distance relationship worked is because my husband never spent his energy wondering if we’d make it. He focused on how we’d make it. Here are a few of his green flags that made all the difference and that I’d encourage you to look for in a long-distance partner too: • He felt like a safe place, even from thousands of miles away. • He always made time for me despite the time difference. • He talked about our future with confidence and followed through on his promises. • He wasn’t afraid of commitment or conversations about our future together. • He trusted me without needing constant reassurance, and I trusted him too. • He encouraged my hobbies, career, friendships, and personal growth. • He made me feel included in his everyday life by sharing random updates, photos, and stories. • He handled disagreements with maturity by talking through them instead of avoiding them. • He never looked for a way out. He stayed committed to us and to closing the distance together. What would you add to this list? I’d love to hear the green flags that made you realize your partner was worth the distance. 🥹👇🏼 #couple #longdistance #relationships #longdistancerelationship #ldr