My kid wanted AirPods. I didn't say yes and I didn't say no. I told him to pitch me.

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Why it worked

The video resonates with parents by offering a practical and relatable parenting strategy that fosters independence and financial literacy in children, framed as a valuable life lesson rather than a direct product promotion.

Summary

The creator recounts how he taught his son a valuable lesson in negotiation and planning when the son wanted AirPods. Instead of a simple 'yes' or 'no', the creator instructed his son to pitch him, detailing the cost, his desire, and how he would earn the money. This experience taught the son the value of earning and planning, rather than simply begging.

Structure

1Son wants AirPods, creator asks him to pitch.
2Son develops a plan, including earning extra money.
3Negotiation and agreement are reached.
4Son receives the experience of earning, not just the item.
5Creator emphasizes raising kids who build their own 'yes'.

Product placement

AirPods: These are wireless earbuds that the creator's son wants. They merely appear as the object of desire. Removing them would change the story but not the video's core message.

Call to action

Send this to a parent raising builders.

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Nick Ayala

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My kid wanted AirPods. I didn't say yes and I didn't say no. I told him to pitch me. Cost, reason, plan to close the gap. We negotiated, we shook on it. Once a kid turns a want into a deal, begging starts to feel beneath them. Send this to a parent raising builders. #parenting #money #kids

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Transcript

My kid wanted AirPods. I didn't say yes and I didn't say no. I told him to pitch me. I mean an actual pitch. What they cost, why he wants them, and what he is willing to do to close the gap between what he's got and how much they cost. He rolled his eyes at me. Then he went back thinking, building a plan. The AirPods were on the other side of what he wanted. He then came back with his plan. The money that he had saved part covers part of it. And extra work will cover the other part. He had a list of what that work was. Priced out. Seven years old, standing in my kitchen, presenting in terms negotiated. We negotiated a few of the line items because they were priced like a Manhattan firm. Shook on it. A real deal. A real negotiation. And here's what he actually got. Not the AirPods. He got the experience of turning a want into a plan and into a deal. And once a kid feels that one time, begging starts to feel beneath them. That's the whole trick. I'm not trying to raise kids who are told yes all the time. I'm raising kids who build the yes themselves. Anything my kids can pitch me, one day they can pitch the entire world.