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This is how you know you're already attached to the guy that you're talking to. It is four signs. If you don't know me, I'm Gwen, I'm a detachment coach and I teach women how to date without getting attached. Sign number one, you check your phone for his text as soon as you open your eyes in the morning. You're doing this, you're allowing your brain to create a habit where every day when you wake up, you go searching for his response, which then builds on to attachment. Sign two, you keep telling stories about him to friends and family. How the date went, what he likes to do, what his hobbies, what he said he was going to do for you. You keep telling him, encouraging your brain to start fantasizing about him, which builds on to attachment. Sign three, you know his schedule better than you know your own. What time he works, when he's at the gym, when he's hanging with his boys. You memorized it, so you know what time of day that you expect him. You're essentially waiting on him, which builds on to attachment. Sign four, you cancel your plans for him. You might have had something fun planned that you already paid for, a night out with friends or family, or maybe you had nightly meditation sessions that you abandoned just to answer a call or do a last minute hangout because your life does not get bigger to make room for him. Something usually has to come out. And if you are doing these, at least three of these, it's almost impossible not attached to him. And you are on the way to giving control and activating your anxious attachment. Which is why a lot of women find themselves devastated when the talking stage ends, even though they haven't known that guy for that long. So if you want to learn how to master in date without anxiety, you should be following me and watching my content, girl.