If you're waiting on a guy to take you serious, Do this:

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The video offers relatable dating advice and a practical solution (detachment) to a common problem (anxiety and disappointment in dating). The creator's personal story and direct address to the audience create a strong connection, while the mention of a class provides a clear path for viewers seeking further help.

Summary

The creator advises viewers to detach from men they are dating to avoid anxiety and disappointment. She shares her past experience of becoming overly attached and explains that by learning to detach and not invest too much emotional energy, women can avoid the pain of unrequited attention.

Structure

1Introduction: Waiting for a guy to take you seriously
2Personal anecdote: Past experience of attachment and anxiety
3The solution: Learning to detach
4Explanation of detachment: Not giving emotional energy to strangers
5Call to action: Promote a class on detachment

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If you’re waiting on a guy you’re talking too to take you more serious, do this instead #talkingstage #detachment #datingadvice

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If you're waiting on a guy to take you serious, Do this:

Transcript

If you're waiting on a guy to take you out or take you serious, do this. Here's why you need to master the fuck out of detachment. I met a guy four months ago, I thought was fine as fuck. But it was four months of him sliding up on my stories, talking about meeting up, he never made the plans. And here's what I used to do back when I had major anxiety when dating. And I'm sure a lot of women can relate to this. I would have pressed him, okay? Why haven't you taken me out yet? You said you were gonna do this and that. Or I would have kept sliding up on his story, his, in my head, if I stayed on his mind, he'd pick me. But what was happening is I got attached too quick. I didn't realize I was becoming a pick-me-sha. That's why I be so devastated when a guy stops talking to me after a few weeks. Then I got sick of my anxiety taking over my dating life. So I learned to detach. Around, I truly did not give a fuck that he never took me out at. Actions had doing. Therefore, disqualified himself as a potential story. I didn't become a man-hater. I didn't start playing just to get. I just stopped handing my emotional energy to a stranger. Guy is. You can master detachment too. I did make a class on it, and it is essentially, that discipline. Everybody girl, y'all are the wrong kind of lover girl. And that sucks more than it has to.