It's 9pm and he still hasn't texted you back (Here's what to do)

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The video taps into a common dating anxiety, offering a relatable scenario and a clear, actionable solution (a class) that promises to alleviate that anxiety and improve dating experiences.

Summary

The creator offers advice on how to handle the anxiety of a man not texting back. She suggests not overthinking the situation and instead taking a class to learn how to detach and date without anxiety.

Structure

1Man not texting back causes anxiety
2Don't overthink or text him immediately
3Check his story for clues
4Realize the anxiety stems from attachment
5Promotes a class to learn detachment

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Go to the top of my page and grab my 25 minute class if you want to learn how to stay detached when dating so you can finally date WITHOUT anxiety and become the own main character of your life!

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Go to the top of my page and grab my 25 minute class if you want to learn how to stay detached when dating so you can finally date WITHOUT anxiety and become the own main character of your life!

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It's 9pm and he still hasn't texted you back (Here's what to do)

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If a man leaving you on red can f up your whole night and probably the next day too, this is for you. This is for you. It's like 9 PM and he hasn't texted you back since like earlier that day, 2 PM. And your last message is just sitting there, read. Maybe on red. So you pick up your phone, you start typing him, trying to say, hey, is everything okay? Then you don't send it. You put the phone down, do something else for 30 seconds. You can't help yourself. So you pick up your phone again. He hasn't texted yet. So you look at his story. You see he posted 19 minutes ago. Really upset. Is it me? What did I do wrong? The fix for this anxiety attack isn't just not to text him because you're there sitting in bed going crazy in your head at 9 PM over him not texting you back. You need to know why you are so attached to him when you guys are only in the talking stage. Go to the top of my page and grab my 25 minute class. It's gonna show you the things you do that get you attached, and how to catch yourself doing them. So you can date without anxiety and while staying detached.