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As a leader, people won't like to hear this. There have been times where I've had two equally qualified people on my team or approximately equal, and one of them is agitating for the promotion and threatening to leave, and the other is a nice person who's willing to wait. And so they wait. And a lot of people say, well, you just rewarded the jerk. Maybe, but I had a triage. I'm going to get one promotion done this quarter or this year because it takes work, and you only need so many leaders at the next level. And I have a very realistic choice of move up this person and keep them, even though I'm a little bit being held hostage, or move up this person and lose the other one. I'd like to tell you I always did the right thing and helped the team player. But I can't actually tell you that's true, and I certainly wouldn't tell you other leaders do that because we have to think about our short-term problems to some degree, and it's not a perfect world. And so yeah, if you're expecting to be rewarded because you're the silent hard worker who's always collaborative, maybe you dislike me for it and you're like, "Well, you sound like a bad boss." I'm actually willing to tell you the truth and tell you that almost everyone's doing what I'm doing. They're just not telling you. So I don't know, bad, good, it's the reality.