I heard someone say that the moment that you stop holding on to something so tightly is the moment that it'll become yours.

I heard someone say that the moment that you stop holding on to something so tightly is the moment that it'll become yours. Think about literally picking up sand in your hand and trying to hold on to it so tightly. What's gonna happen? All the sand is gonna fall out. And the harder you clench, the more sand you lose. But instead, if you're just to go and scoop the sand and hold it, you're gonna have a lot more, Not because you don't want the sand as bad, but because you're not gripping onto it so tight. And that applies to everything in life. Goals, relationships, success. Desperation reeks. It pushes it away. The white knuckling, the obsessing, the constant monitoring and trying to control everything. But I get it. Because you're so afraid of it not working out that you're just trying to control and make sure that it does. But while you're doing that, you. You are subconsciously pushing away everything that you actually want. But the moment that you stop trying to control every single aspect and you just trust that it is yours, you release how it has to come, when it has to come. You just give it to the universe. You give it to god. That is when things start to move. The right people walk into your life. Doors start to fly open. Everything finally starts to become and feel effortless.