3 ways to eliminate neediness as a man

3 ways to eliminate neediness as a man. Neediness is like, fucking poison. It's spiritual weakness, right? It's toxic. It ruins relationships. Friends that are really needy, you don't explain time with them. You like the guy who's just cool being him, right? He's willing to die on his own sword, who loves himself exactly as he is. And these three sneaky, kind of weird ways that you can eliminate neediness from real life. Number one is to get obsessed with some shit. If you have a cause you're willing to die for, if you just fucking dive in to crypto, to starting a business, to researching peptides, to your writing. You have something that your brain can just kind of kick back and think about instead of insecurities. You suddenly don't need anyone else. No plans on Friday night? Great time to hit the gym. No plans on a Saturday? Great time to call the suppliers in China. Then you want to figure out Facebook ads because you focused on the product. You know, you got to learn marketing. You're on, you're on online forums, you meet some other dude, he's in San Antonio, you're in New York, you're FaceTime and you're talking, you're watching the NBA finals, you're talking about ads, you're building the business together. Before you know it, you're millionaires. Your friends are millionaires. The mission, pre-packaged with everything you fucking need. And you start to become the guy that everything just orbits around him. Your family's upset that you're missing dinner to go upstairs and work on your laptop, but they secretly respect it. They secretly respect it. The whole world loves a man that's getting after it. Number two, you can invest in yourself. Best way to tell yourself that you're worth something, that you don't need other people's approval, is to start gaining your own approval. By literally putting money into yourself. This could be a nice haircut, okay? This could be a nice gym membership. This could be a nice jacket, nice clothes. If you barely have any fucking money, it's like a $5 date for yourself. I'm gonna go to Wendy's, I'm gonna get the Biggie bag, get YouTube going, and I'm gonna start scheming for my future. I'm doing this just for me. If you spiritually start to invest yourself, that something that's worth investing in, I promise you, your aura will change overnight. Literally. And on the broader scale, it actually just gets bigger and bigger. It's like, I remember spending $4,000 for mastermind this year. I was in one that cost $70,000 to get around more people, learn more, you get better at the thing. Every time you lay down for a massage, you're in the barber chair getting your beard lined up. You're saying, I'm worth it. I'm enough. Self-investment, very attractive trait in a man. Number three, this is super fucking powerful, bro. Just get comfortable being by yourself. These motherfuckers out here, these people are not shit. They don't be promising themselves, they're gossiping, they're never accomplishing their goals. They're not hanging around great people. They're not even that attractive. They don't smell good. Fuck them, bro. Just if you just get cool being by yourself, and you don't need anyone, you could have a great time by yourself. Put on a podcast, laugh, journal. I laugh more by myself than I laugh with other people. Then dating, right? Hanging out with friends, anything else, it has to be above. Just being alone. Like, it has to actually your presence becomes something that has to be earned. When you show up, you're actually just cool being yourself because you're obsessed with some shit and you got a nice haircut and you like just chilling alone. Now everyone wants to hang out with you and you're getting invited to way more shit. You have motion. All because you didn't give a fuck about motion. Crazy spiritual law. A lot of motherfuckers spend their whole life chasing it and never find it. Bye bye neediness.