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One of the hardest lessons I've learned in my career is that there are opportunities that were never going to be yours. There are structural things that will keep you where you are. So I applied for this director role once and I was so excited. I went through the interview process, everything's going great. And the recruiter called and he said, the hiring manager wants to speak to you one more time. And I'm like, yes, I'm about to get this job offer. It's going to be amazing. And so I talked to the hiring manager and she said, I'm not hiring for that role anymore. I'm actually looking for a VP, but I would love to offer you for the same salary that I had talked about in the beginning. When is a win is a win until you have additional information to realize it was actually a loss. So I start this job and it was probably like three weeks, maybe a month later, the boss had hired me, said, new boss is starting. She's going to be the director of this department. The director job that I applied for, that I was told that was no longer being filled, that broke my heart. And it just made me realize that it doesn't matter how good you are or whatever. Like, there are some opportunities that were never going to be yours. And it just breaks my heart to even think that we try so hard to go for things where there are people that know that it was never going to be us.