Stop Decorating Your Cage

@iamshaniakhan

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Why it worked

The video likely resonated by addressing a common feeling of dissatisfaction and offering a conceptual solution ('Soft 60') that reframes the problem from superficial fixes to deeper alignment, tapping into a desire for genuine change.

Summary

The speaker discusses how people often try to "decorate their cage" by buying nice things to escape an undesirable life, rather than addressing the root cause. She emphasizes that superficial fixes like candles or planners won't solve deeper issues like a draining relationship or a constantly stressed nervous system. True change, she suggests, comes from addressing why one accepts living in such a situation, which is the core of "Soft 60" and alignment.

Structure

1Introduction: Stop decorating your cage
2Romanticizing life with material things
3The difference: escaping vs. building a life
4Superficial fixes don't solve core problems
5The true answer is addressing the root cause

Product placement

The video promotes 'Soft 60' and its associated 'Frequency Method' via the creator's bio link, which leads to the product's website. The content discusses the concept of 'Soft 60' as a solution to deeper life dissatisfaction.

Original caption

If this idea unsettles you, it might also set you free. #RichGrandmaEnergy #Soft60Reset #NervousSystem #SoftLife #MindsetShift

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On-screen text

Stop Decorating Your Cage I love romanticizing my life as much as the next person. Buying the really fancy candle and getting the planner and the beautiful sheets and the flowers all over and the good smells and all of the things that. The expensive robe and the beautiful dinners and. And the nice China and the silverware. And don't get me wrong, I love beautiful things. And I do believe beauty changes your frequency. But here's the difference. A lot of women are decorating a life that they wanna escape from. They're building little moments of relief instead of building a life that they don't need to escape from. If Monday morning makes you feel like you wanna throw up, you can't buy another candle to fix it. If your relationship is draining you, a self care isn't gonna fix that. If your nervous system is constantly or in fight or flight mode, a planner is not gonna fix that. The answer isn't making your prison look prettier. The answer is why you've accepted living there for so long. And that's why soft 60 isn't about aesthetics. Soft 60 is about alignment.

Transcript

Stop Decorating Your Cage. I love romanticizing my life as much as the next person. Buying the really fancy candle and getting the planner and the beautiful sheets and the flowers all over and the good smells and all of the things that. The expensive robe and the beautiful dinners and. And the nice China and the silverware. And don't get me wrong, I love beautiful things. And I do believe beauty changes your frequency. But here's the difference. A lot of women are decorating a life that they wanna escape from. They're building little moments of relief instead of building a life that they don't need to escape from. If Monday morning makes you feel like you wanna throw up, you can't buy another candle to fix it. If your relationship is draining you, a self care isn't gonna fix that. If your nervous system is constantly or in fight or flight mode, a planner is not gonna fix that. The answer isn't making your prison look prettier. The answer is why you've accepted living there for so long. And that's why soft 60 isn't about aesthetics. Soft 60 is about alignment.