kya aapne apni biwi ke saath 41 saal zindagi ke guzare? lekin biwi ko khone ke baad unhone bataya ki maine apni zindagi ke 41 saal jo ki apni biwi nasreen ke saath guzare, afsos is baat ka hai ki main apni biwi ko samajh na saka. main jaan na saka ki aakhir meri biwi kya chahti hai. biwi ne apne marne se 3 hafte pehle arif sahab ko ek aisa jumla kaha jo ki unki poori zindagi ka pachtawa ban gaya. woh ek aisa pachtawa ban gaya ki jiske saaye tale jisko lekar arif sahab aaj apni baaki ki zindagi guzaar rahe hain. UK mein rehne wale arif sahab ki ye kahani hai jinhone apni poori jawani paisa kamane mein laga di. aksar pakistani aise hote hain jab beroone mulk jaate hain to apne aap ko paisa kamane wali machine bana lete hain aur din raat laga dete hain mehnat karne mein paisa kamane mein. arif sahab ne bhi yahi sab kuch kiya, apni zindagi ko sirf paison ke liye waqf kar diya. aaj se 7 saal pehle inki biwi ka inteqal ho gaya lekin biwi 7 saal pehle se lekar woh itne saal jo inke saath guzare woh kya chahti thi? jab bhi arif sahab ghar aate the to woh ek hi baat kehti thi ki aaye hum log baith kar chai peete hain, aaye hum log baith kar kuch baatein karte hain. lekin itni zyada mehnat ke baad itna thake haare hone ke baad jab bhi woh ghar aate to ek hi baat kehte ki aaj nahi kal, aaj nahi kal. lekin afsos ki woh kal itne saalon mein kabhi aayi hi na. aaj bhi jab inse koi ye sawal karta hai ki aapki zindagi ka sabse bada pachtawa aur sabse bada dukh kya hai to woh koi haadsa bayan nahi karte balki woh kehte hain meri zindagi ka pachtawa meri biwi ka woh aakhri jumla tha jo usne marne se pehle mujhe kaha aur uske saaye tale us jumle ko lekar main aaj tak pachtata hoon aur us waqt ko rota hoon ki aakhir main kya karoon. log aksar ye koshish karte hain ki jawani ki umar mein achha khasa paisa kama lete hain aur budhape mein jaakar sukoon ki zindagi guzaarenge aur khaayenge lekin jab budhape ka waqt aata hai to siwaye tanhai ke aur kuch nahi rehta. woh paisa kama to diya jaata hai lekin jab usko sukoon se kharchne ka ya khaane ka waqt aata hai to siwaye tanhai ke aur kuch nahi rehta. yahi sab kuch inke saath hua. biwi aakhri umar tak sirf ek hi baat kehti rehti thi ki mujhe waqt dein, mujhe waqt dein. lekin arif sahab ke paas waqt hi nahi tha, baaki sab kuch tha. inko lagta tha ki paise de dena apni zimmedari ko poora karna hai, bachon ko achha mustaqbil dena apni zimmedari ko poora karna hai. bachche jawan hue aur aahista aahista biwi mukammal taur par khamosh ho gayi. lekin us khamoshi ko hi samjhe ki yaqeenan meri biwi ne ab tamam tar cheezon ko understand kar liya hai, samajh gayi hai ki main thaka hota hoon, mere paas waqt nahi hai ya main kaam par jaata hoon, kaam se wapas aane ke baad mujhe aaram ki zaroorat hoti hai aur ye cheezein isi tarah se chalti rahi. jab biwi ab bimar hui aur biwi ka aakhri waqt aaya to hospital mein maujood woh mashino ki aawazein, un aawazon mein biwi ne apne shohar ko aawaz di aur apne paas bulaya aur kaha ki aapko yaad hai ki main aap se waqt maangti thi aur aapke paas waqt nahi hota tha. maine aap se kabhi demand nahi ki, na kabhi shopping ki, na kabhi kisi aisi cheez ki ki jiski wajah se aap pareshan hote. sirf aur sirf waqt maangti thi, aapke paas waqt nahi tha aur uske baad main khamosh ho gayi. aapko kya laga tha ki maine aapki is baat ke saath compromise kar liya? nahi, ye meri zindagi ka sabse bada dukh ban gaya ki main us dukh ko lekar tanhai ke saath khamoshi se aapke saath zindagi guzarti chali gayi. biwi to is duniya se chali gayi lekin biwi ke jaane ke baad ek aisi diary arif sahab ke haath lagi ki jisko padh kar woh koi ek din ki baat nahi thi ki woh ek din mein diary khatam kar li jaati balki us diary ko padhne ke liye ab arif sahab ke paas waqt hi waqt tha aur kayi raatein thi jisme woh apni biwi ki likhi un tamam baaton ko padhte. jab inhone apni biwi ki woh diary padhi to us diary mein siwaye shikwe aur shikayaton ke aur kuch bhi nahi tha. har roz us khatoon nasreen ne diary par likha hota tha ki maine aaj bhi apne shohar se baat karne ki koshish ki, maine aaj bhi apne shohar ke saath waqt guzaarne ki koshish ki lekin aaj bhi unhone mujhe kal ka keh diya lekin afsos ki woh kal na aayi aur biwi ke us duniya se jaane ka waqt aa gaya. aaj woh arif sahab ke paas paisa hai, aaj arif sahab ke paas ghar hai, aaj arif sahab ke paas ghar ki woh chhat hai ki jis chhat par apne shohar ke saath woh biwi shaamein guzaarna chahti thi lekin inke paas waqt nahi tha. aaj siwaye dukh ke aur kuch nahi hai. kabhi kabhaar zaroori nahi hota ki koi dhoka ho, koi aisa jhoot ho jo aapke rishton ko kha jaaye, aksar auqaat aisi khamoshi bhi hoti hai jo ki aapke rishte mein bahut saari mehroomiyan chhod jaati hai jiske baais aapke rishte kamzor ho jaate hain. paisa kamayein, yaqeenan paisa kamana zindagi ki zaroorat hai aur iske bagair guzara nahi, pardes gaye hain, beroone mulk gaye hain to yaqeenan aap log paisa kamane gaye hain, apna mustaqbil sanwarne gaye hain lekin is paise ki daud mein, is aage badhne ki daud mein apne rishton ko peeche na chhoden, apne saath jinke liye aap paisa kama rahe hain, unko aisi mehroomi mein na dhakelein ki uske baad aapki zindagi mein siwaye pachtave ke aur tanhai ke aur kuch na rahe. arif sahab ne apni zindagi mein jo kuch bhi kiya, aaj apni woh zindagi mein woh akele hain. jin rishton ke liye paisa kamane wali machine ban gaye, aakhir kaar woh us waqt ke saath saath is duniya se chale gaye aur aaj arif sahab akele apni zindagi guzaar rahe hain. kya aisa karna chahiye paisa kamane ke saath saath kis tarike se apne ghar walon ko waqt dena chahiye, apne biwi ko, apne apne bachon ko, apne waqt ko kis tarah se in tamam logon mein taqseem karna chahiye, comment section mein apni raaye ka izhaar zaroor kijiyega.
