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I love to party so much that when I was in my early 20s, I remember genuinely having anxiety thinking about oh my god, like this life I'm living where I party every weekend is going to have to end someday. It gave me anxiety knowing that like this isn't forever. And I wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self, I'm 30, 31 almost now, that like partying never has to stop. You just kind of like evolve the way in which you party to make it work with the fact that you are aging. So, some key details in how my partying ways have changed. I would say the biggest thing now is that I don't ever force a night and something has to be worth my time to go out and party. So like before, I would go out every Friday, Saturday with no plan. People wouldn't even be going out. I would just be like going out by myself or just like with one other person, like rallying people throughout the day, like making new friends along the way. Nobody was like in the mood to, and we would just be like forcing the night which would lead to me blacking out, probably making bad decisions, spending a bunch of money. Like it actually wasn't fun. I was like, why did I force that night when like literally there just wasn't a plan. Now, I really only go out if there is like a legitimate plan. So it's like someone's birthday, engagement party, like it doesn't even matter, doesn't have to be like a big milestone. Just like, oh, 10 people or five people, we all decided we're going out for this reason to watch a game, to do whatever. And then it's like a legit plan. It's not just like, oh, we'll just see where the night takes us. I don't do that anymore. But like it makes the times I do go out, which are fewer, but they are higher quality because there is a great plan in place with people I know who are going to be good vibes. And then it's just an amazing time. I also like to plan vacations around places that have the option to party. Like I'm not going to really Ibiza or like that vibe anymore, but everywhere I go on vacation, I need to have at least one to two party nights. Like I'm probably drinking the whole time, but I want to be like on a dance floor at least one to two nights of the vacation. So if you're younger and you're stressed out and you're like, oh my god, I love partying so much, just know it doesn't have to stop. I'm not that old obviously, but the older I get, the more I'm like finding ways to work partying into my life. Partying continues to be part of life and it's great. And before people come for me in the comments and say I'm an alcoholic, like drinking and partying are two very different things. And if you don't know the difference, then like you don't know the point of this conversation and like this video is just not for you.
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