Why it worked
The video uses a relatable and humorous approach to dating advice, framing a common on TikTok. The creator's personal anecdote about her supportive boyfriend and the contrast with past experiences creates a strong narrative that resonates with viewers seeking relationship advice or validation. The "date the nerdy boys" hook is catchy and memorable, encouraging engagement.
Summary
The creator advises viewers to date "nerdy boys" and provides two reasons. First, her current boyfriend actively supports her goals by doing research and creating plans, unlike previous partners who would go out, causing her anxiety. Second, her current boyfriend is passionate about his own pursuits, like hackathons, which inspires her to focus on her own goals and content creation without anxiety.
Structure
- 1Introduction: A message for someone
- 2Reason 1: Boyfriend's support for goals
- 3Reason 2: Contrast with past relationships
- 4Conclusion: Date nerdy boys
Product placement
The video discusses dating "nerdy boys" and highlights the positive impact of a supportive boyfriend on the creator's goals and well-being. The boyfriend is described as someone who researches, plans, and stays focused on goals, even participating in a hackathon on a Saturday. This is presented as a desirable trait in a partner, contrasting with past relationships where the creator experienced anxiety due to her partner's activities.
Call to action
So date the cute nerdy boys
On-screen text
I feel like some girl out there needs me to say this
so I'm gonna say it
DATE
THE
and let me give you two reasons
whenever I tell my boyfriend my goals
he locks the fuck in not me
he locks in
does all of the research gives me a plan
and makes sure that I'm staying on track
and if I'm not staying on track
he reminds me what the consequences are
and it's always something scientifically proven
most of the time
he just knows it off the top of his head
it just makes my life so much easier
and it also puts me back on track to achieve my goals
number two
in previous relationships
I was always doing wholesome activities on the weekends
where my partner was going out
and that would make me really anxious
more of a me problem
and I need to talk about it during therapy
but my current boyfriend
five PM on a Saturday
and he's texting me updates from the hackathon
that he's doing
completely optional
no one told him to do that
just what he loves doing
and I'm here doing content
working towards my dreams
and I'm not anxious no longer
so date the cute nerdy boys