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I paid off $60k of debt, lost
@ashley.elle.co
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Why it worked
The creator leverages a common aspiration for self-improvement and personal transformation, framing her experience as a relatable 'blueprint' that promises actionable advice, thus driving engagement through curiosity and the desire for a similar outcome.
Summary
The creator shares that rebuilding one's life doesn't require a new personality but rather adherence to a few non-negotiable rules. She outlines three rules she followed to pay off debt, lose weight, and distance herself from draining friendships.
Structure
- 1Introduction of life transformation
- 2The problem of needing a new personality
- 3The solution: non-negotiable rules
- 4Rule 1: The Money Rule
- 5Rule 2: The Body Rule
On-screen text
I paid off $60k of debt, lost
90 lbs. and walked away
from draining friendships.
People always ask for the
blueprint. Here are the 3 rules
that actually changed
everything.
Transcript
The biggest lie about rebuilding your life is that you need a brand new personality. You don't. You just need a few non-negotiables you refuse to break. When I was $60k in debt, 90 lbs heavier, and exhausted from trying to hold onto people who didn't value me, I stopped looking for complicated solutions. I just locked in on 3 rules: 1. The Money Rule: I stopped spending money to impress people I don't even like. Checked my bank account daily. Faced the numbers. 2. The Body Rule: 15-20 minutes of
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The biggest lie about rebuilding your life is that you need a brand new personality. You don't. You just need a few non-negotiables you refuse to break. When I was $60k in debt, 90 lbs heavier, and exhausted from trying to hold onto people who didn't value me, I stopped looking for complicated solutions. I just locked in on 3 rules: 1. The Money Rule: I stopped spending money to impress people I don't even like. Checked my bank account daily. Faced the numbers. 2. The Body Rule: 15-20 minutes of movement before the rest of the house woke up. Not to punish myself, but to prove I could keep a promise to me. 3. The People Rule: I stopped auditioning for friendships. If effort was one-sided, I let the silence do the talking. None of it was fancy. All of it changed my life. The rebuild isn't about motivation. It's about deciding you're finally worth the discipline. Which one of these areas are you focusing on right now? Debt, body, or boundaries? Tell me below 👇🏽🤎 #rebuildwithme #millennialmom #mindset #debtfreejourney #debtfree
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