How to compliment someone

How to compliment someone Crash-course in psychology most compliments are so forgettable that people can't even remember them an hour later here's how you're gonna give them one that they'll remember for years this works in sales in dating networking family anything the best part it's almost impossible for them not to remember you after so for example a regular compliment like nice shirt it's fine but it's lazy it's like saying hey i noticed you exist instead say this that shirt makes it look like you should be the one running the company or that presentation made it feel like you were doing this for 20 years the key is you're not just noticing something you're telling them the effect that it has and here's the real kicker we'll get to it in a second but if you do this right you'll lock in the memory forever tag it with the story that shirt makes it look like you own the room reminds me of this Ted talk that I listened to one time your smile looks like you should be a dentist reminds me of this one actress I saw i'm willing to bet money on the fact that the compliments that you remember are the ones that someone did all of these things and tagged it with a story and told you you reminded them of blank don't just compliment the thing compliment the impact and then tag it with a story that's how you're gonna stand out