the harsh truth about passport bros

I was on vacation in Asia and I was talking to this woman and she was telling me about her relationship because she's married and she is in her like early 20s, very pretty, and she's married. So I asked to see a picture of her husband and he looks like the definition of a passport bro. Very old, very overweight, very chopped. So I asked her how did they meet and she just said I don't want to talk about it. So I apologize and I said I'm sorry for asking and she said no no no it's okay. Um let's just say I am not happy with this arrangement. So I said, ah, I'm sorry. I I take it you don't want to have kids with him, huh? She said hell no. But he wants kids, so I know eventually I will have to do that, but for now I'm just not going to think about it. So I asked her, so how do you feel about all this? Like this must be suffocating for you, huh? And she said, honestly, my situation isn't good, but the money he gives to my family gives us the opportunity to have a better life. So even though I'm unhappy, I have to remember that I'm sacrificing this for my family. But this got me thinking, how do you feel about passport bros? Because yes, on the one hand, they give money to families to give them opportunities, but at the same time too, that relationship dynamic is it's essentially like a mail-order bride. What do you think?