Stop saying your ex was DL with 0 proof lmaooo

I've said this before and I'll say it again. Everybody's ex-boyfriend cannot possibly be DL. Okay? Many of time I've been listening to a story where a girl is regaling, you know, her run with the tale about her awful ex-boyfriend and, you know, how he did this, that, and the third and, oh my god, you guys would never believe. And then it ends with, anyway, we broke up and he's totally DL. And I'm like, okay, I heard a lot of interesting things in that story, but I must have missed the part where he was DL because I didn't hear that mentioned. And then me or another person will be like, oh my god, how did you find out? And you know, like assuming like she went through his phone or, you know, sometimes they're already included going through the phone in the story, right? And this didn't come up. So I'm like, oh, like how did you find out? Well, I mean, I don't know for sure, but it's like, okay, if this was not something that you discovered while going through his phone or someone came to you and, you know, was trying to help you out by telling you some information that he was cheating. Like, come on, why are we saying that? Like, we cannot simply say that without proof. Like, I hear this a lot. Like, well, you know, but he was into fashion. So I'm like, okay, that doesn't mean he's DL though. Like, what are you talking about? Like, what are you talking about?