I'm 32. I'll say this for all the ladies in their late 20s

Here's what you need to know, sis. 1️⃣ Stop saying maybe when you mean no. It is not kinder. It just delays the discomfort and creates confusion for everyone including you. 2️⃣ Do not settle just because you are tired. Tired is temporary. A decision made from exhaustion can follow you for years. 3️⃣ Spend time alone and pay attention to how things actually feel without other people's opinions in the room. 4️⃣ If you do not know yourself well enough, other people will fill in the blanks for you. And you will spend years living by their version. 5️⃣ Try things you are not good at yet. Competence comes after the attempt, not before. 6️⃣ Confidence is not a personality trait you are born with. It is what builds up after you do hard things repeatedly. 7️⃣ Stop trying to make small situations fit a big life. Some things are just not meant to scale with you. 8️⃣ You do not need everyone to like you. You need to be someone you actually respect. 9️⃣ Do not make yourself smaller to keep other people comfortable. That is a habit that compounds and gets harder to break the longer you let it run. 🔟 Know your worth and then make decisions that match it. Not occasionally. Consistently. Follow @saltandlightcoaching for more 🤍 #careers #careercoach #jobsearch #careeradvice #jobs