Buying your own home as a single woman is celebrated. Buying one when you're in a relationship? Suddenly it's controversial.

Buying your own home as a single woman is celebrated. Buying one when you're in a relationship? Suddenly it's controversial. I just personally find it so strange how if a woman is single, buying her own home is completely acceptable for her to go on and buy her own home in her name because there's no man in the picture. Like no one bats an eyelid at a single woman going and buying her own home, but when I come online and share like, hey, even if you're in a relationship, you can buy your own home, put it in your name, and if anything, encourage your partner to go off and buy his own place and put it in his name, it'll save you a whole lot of heartache and a whole lot of entanglement and financial losses. It ruffles feathers. And it's um, it's, it ruffles feathers and it's um, it's, I don't get why. I'm not breaking people up, I'm not saying dump your partner, buy your own home and put it in your name and have that. It saves you a whole lot of heartache. I don't hear the stories very often of women being in a relationship and having bought a house independently. I often hear that we buy with the partner because we think that's what we need to do. But when we really look into how conditioning works in the society and the patriarchy, then yes, you're kind of told that that's how to do it. It's really freaking expensive and hard to get on the property ladder, let alone on your own. And I hope to be that person in the future that can come on here and be in a relationship and say, yeah, I'm happily in a relationship, but I still bought my own home. Here's the reasons why I advocate for it. It's not going to change, nothing's going to budge this opinion because the hardship that I've been through as a result of that one action, buying a house with my man, long-term partner, and how much, don't give me wrong, there's the layers of emotionally abusive and, you know, nasty. And I'd never ever ever put myself in that situation again. But when we really look into how conditioning works in the society and the patriarchy, then yes, you're kind of told that that's how to do it. It's really freaking expensive and hard to get on the property ladder, let alone on your own. And I hope to be that person in the future that can come on here and be in a relationship and say, yeah, I'm happily in a relationship, but I still bought my own home. Here's the reasons why I advocate for it. It's not going to change, nothing's going to budge this opinion because the hardship that I've been through as a result of that one action, buying a house with my man, long-term partner, and how much, don't give me wrong, there's the layers of emotionally abusive and, you know, nasty. And I'd never ever ever put myself in that situation again.