If you are 20-27 y/o please listen

If you are 20-27 y/o please listen (advice from a 28 y/o) PART 2 These are my opinions, you're welcome to disagree. Learn to communicate with all ages. Children, adults, elderly. You should be able to hold conversation with anybody, their background. You work on it. And the way to work on it is by going out there, making conversation with people of all ages and backgrounds. Just don't make it weird with the kids. Do it with family and siblings rather than random street people. One point. I'm gonna add to that one. You should be able to conversate with both genders professionally, without making it weird. There are people out there who don't know the gender they're talking to. Not every interaction is intimate. Sometimes you order coffee, ask directions or work with a colleague. If it's weird for you to do that, you need to work on that and un-sexualize your mind. Talk to people like human beings rather than objects. That's important. Learn. Two point. Financially. Unless you studied a finance degree, you need to teach yourself about money. There's no excuse anymore. YouTube, ChatGPT, access to books. Go and read about finance. Three good books. Because when you make money, that's the first part. Keeping money, investing the money, spending it wisely. It's a whole other game. And if you don't learn how to do it, believe me, the money will fall through your hands quicker than you can count it. Three point. Write a non-negotiable list for your spouse. However, let me finish. You mirror the qualities of the list in yourself. So it's not to search for someone. It's to set your own standards. Don't start judging people with your list. The purpose of making the list is the standard that you will hold yourself to in your twenties. So if you want a spouse who is emotionally intelligent and kind, polite, calm, explaining it AGAIN so you get it. You need to mirror those qualities first. Your checklist is your self-improvement checklist that you're trying to attain in your twenties. That's how you level up and attract somebody good. Four point. Keep one hobby in your life, at least, which is just for fun. No monetization, no side hustle, no business. You just do this thing for fun. No screen either. You can switch off. I don't care how busy your schedule, your work life, your university is. You must maintain one thing for fun. Otherwise, you will go insane. Life is too short to not have fun. Five point. Write yourself letters. This is unmatched. You can't open the letter until it's your next bday. It's like speaking to your younger self. In that letter, write about the successes you've had in the past 12 months. What you're worried about currently. What you're looking forward to in a year. And where you see yourself 12 months from now. Write the letter, seal the envelope, save it to the side. Open it next year on your birthday. There is nothing better than reading the letter one year later at where you thought you would be and actually being even further ahead in life. Looking back at the worries that you actually had at that point in life and realizing that they were really not that big. You got past every worry that you thought was major in your life at the time. It teaches you that your perspective on things just magnified because you're in the moment. Once you step out of it and look back, you realize life isn't actually that bad. You can do this in various ways. You can send emails to yourself. You can write letters to yourself. I do what I did and write a newsletter, and it's a great way to keep in touch with your younger self and to see how life has transformed you through your twenties. Leave your thoughts in the comments below. Like the video and follow me for part three.