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Everybody wants to be a bad bitch and nobody knows how. And in honor of my one year anniversary of getting laid off, and most importantly, my one year anniversary of taking my social media full time. We're talking about one of the most important rules of being a baddie, which is that baddies know how to fail. A majority of people do not accomplish the things that they want in life because they are scared. They are scared of failing. They're scared of being bad. They're scared of being embarrassed. They're scared of looking stupid and finding out that they're actually not good at it. And if the fear of looking stupid is stopping you from going after the life that you want, we have a problem. Baddies fail, and they learn how to fail fast. So today, I'm actually gonna teach you guys how to fail. Get your pen and papers and write this shit down. Number one, write down something that you want to do. Not something that you already know how to do. Something that you have been wanting to do for a while, that you keep talking yourself out of doing. Number two, write down two to three baby steps that you can take towards it. You don't have to figure out the entire master plan right now. What can you literally do this week? And number three, you guys know I like to keep this simple. Go do it and expect to suck. Because here's a reality of most situations. You might post a video and nobody might watch it. You might apply to the job and get rejected. You might start working out and actually struggle through the entire class. You might start a business and make absolutely no money. If any of those things happen to you, that does not mean that you have failed. You have simply collected a data point. Instead of saying things like, 'I failed, so maybe this isn't for me,' I need you to say, 'Okay, that didn't work this time, but what did I just learn?' Because failure, it's not supposed to stop you from doing things. Failure is supposed to give you information. And I think that adults have actually completely forgotten this. Because think about babies who are learning how to walk. They get up, fall on their ass, and then get back up again. They don't fall twice and think, 'Oh, maybe walking isn't for me.' And that's literally how you get good at anything in this life. You fail 10 times, you adjust 10 times. And then eventually, you're gonna get to that one point where you're standing, and it's all gonna click. If you are a part of the Baddie Academy, I need you to stop making failure mean so much to you. Stop taking it so personal. Being bad at something is not embarrassing. Being a beginner is not embarrassing. And failing does not mean that you're incapable. What it actually means is that you took a chance on yourself and did something difficult that you knew you probably couldn't accomplish. It means that you had the opportunity to fail, 'cause that's what bad bitches do. Alright, that's all that I have for today, but I'll see you baddies at the next one.