10 ways people act when they secretly envy you

Not everyone who seems supportive is on your side. 10 ways people act when they secretly envy you: 1️⃣ They give you advice that sounds helpful but steers you wrong. It is hard to prove. That is the point. 2️⃣ You get good news and they make it about themselves before you finish the sentence. They are not celebrating you. They are competing with you. 3️⃣ They trash talk you to mutual friends but frame it as concern. "I just feel like she's changing" is not worry. It is a campaign. 4️⃣ They introduce you with a qualifier that takes the edge off. "She did really well considering where she started." Nobody asked for the context. 5️⃣ They make jokes at your expense in a group and call it banter. When you react, suddenly you cannot take a joke. 6️⃣ When something goes wrong for you, their energy shifts. You will catch it before they cover it with sympathy. 7️⃣ They ask detailed questions about your plans and then go quiet. A few months later, they are doing something similar. 8️⃣ They bring up your lowest moment in rooms where people do not know your full story. 9️⃣ They give you a compliment and pivot to themselves before you finish saying thank you. 🔟 In a group, they undermine your point right before you finish making it. Subtle enough that only you notice. I am a corporate recruiter turned confidence and career coach for women. I believe we have been conditioned to make ourselves small and I want to help break that. Comment ACT if you are ready to take a bet on yourself. Follow @theportfoliocareercoach for more 🤍 #careers #careercoach #jobsearch #careeradvice #jobs --- signs someone secretly envies you how to spot a woman who is jealous of you career and confidence coach for women toxic friendship signs women need to know how to deal with envy and low key hate from women