HAPPY PEOPLE AINT HATING HATING PEOPLE AINT HAPPY

All I got to say is happy people ain't hating and hating people ain't happy. Have y'all ever been having a conversation with somebody and you just listening and you like you're projecting. You're literally projecting and you don't even realize it. And people don't understand that the words that you speak out of your mouth say more about you and your thoughts and how you feel about yourself than how you feel about the person that you're talking to or talking about. You know what I'm saying? Like if people really consider like wow if I say this am I going to sound like a hater? If I say this am I going to sound like a a negative person? If I say this am I going to sound like I'm putting this person down or I'm being shady? I be having conversations with people and in my brain I'll be like yeah they don't like themselves because people who love themselves, people who are truly and genuinely happy, I feel like they have nothing but love to spread and give. Now I'm all for constructive criticism, right? But there's a very fine line between constructive criticism and shade. You know what I'm saying? And one thing about me, I was always taught if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it. And another thing I was taught is to always mind your business, the business that pays you. And so many times y'all I be having conversations I be thinking to myself like you don't even know how you sound and you literally sound like a hater and that is so unfortunate. That is literally so unfortunate. I know I'm not the only one. Like have y'all ever been talking to somebody and you just been like how could you even say that? Like that was very weird of you to say. Like