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If you're ambitious but torn between a
9 to 5 &
entrepreneurship
here's how every stage of
my career actually felt
1. science student
I studied biochemistry and thought I'd end up on a more traditional path. I did well in school and my life made sense on paper, but even then I think part of me wasn't sure what I wanted.
2. ambitious corporate girl
At first, corporate felt exciting. I was making good money, learning a lot, and felt proud of the career I was building. I felt like I was on the right track.
3. burnt out but high-functioning
This was the weird stage where everything looked fine from the outside, but I knew something was off. I was doing well, but after a while, I got bored and uninspired. I could feel myself wanting something more creative, more energizing, and more mine.
4. accidentally starting a business
Around that time, a friend reached out about selling Japanese skincare together. Neither of us had run a business before, but we decided to try. I built a tiny Shopify store, designed the branding myself, and launched with around 20 products.
5. corporate by day, Kiyoko by night
This stage was exhausting, but I loved the challenge. I was working full-time and spending nights and weekends building the brand. It was a lot, but it gave me energy in a way corporate no longer did.
6. the business started getting real
At first it was just a few orders here and there. Then it started growing, we hired creators, one video really took off, and suddenly this little side project had real momentum.
7. full-time founder
Building Kiyoko has been the most rewarding chapter by far. It's harder, messier, and more uncertain than having a normal job, but it feels way more aligned with who I am.
my honest take
A 9 to 5 gave me skills, structure, and a foundation. Building a business gave me creativity, ownership, and freedom. I do not think everyone should quit their job, but I do think there is a difference between building a good career and building a life that feels like yours.
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