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Reasons why your bf needs to be super motivated. If your boyfriend is not motivated by anything, he doesn't have any goals and he has no aspirations outside of your relationship, he's not the one. Most guys aren't going to want to hear this but she is completely right. And this is not a standard that is just exclusive to guys. Girls should also have motivations outside of their relationship. You as a person should have aspirations, have goals, have things that you want to achieve in your life, or else you're gonna get 50 years down the line and be like, wow, I did absolutely nothing. I could have used my youth, my time when I was able-bodied and had all the time in the world to do something impactful. Your life is the most valuable thing you have. Do not sit around and waste it.
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