GOOD MEN EXIST YOU'RE JUST NOT THEIR TYPE

@klaudia_evora

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The video taps into a common dating frustration and offers a direct, albeit controversial, perspective. The creator's confident delivery and the relatable topic of relationship standards likely resonated with viewers, encouraging engagement and sharing.

Summary

The speaker argues that good men do exist but have high standards, and women often don't realize these men are also evaluating them. She suggests that women who place themselves on a pedestal and cannot accept criticism are unlikely to attract such men, who seek peace, discipline, and accountability. The speaker advises women to create a list of desired qualities in a partner and then honestly assess if they embody the qualities a man with those standards would seek.

Structure

1Introduction: Good men exist, but women aren't their type
2Explanation: Good men have high standards and are also looking
3Critique: Women who can't take criticism are not chosen
4Ideal Man's Desires: Peace, discipline, accountability
5Call to Action: Create two lists - one for ideal man, one for ideal woman
6Self-Reflection: Honestly assess oneself against the ideal woman's list

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GOOD MEN EXIST YOU'RE JUST NOT THEIR TYPE

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Standards go both ways #relationships #datingstandards #modernwomen #marriage #selfaccountability

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Transcript

Here's the thing about good men. The type of men women online swear don't exist anymore. They do exist. They just have really high standards. And a lot of women don't realise that the same men they're looking for are also looking back at them. So if you're the type of woman who puts herself on a pedestal, who thinks she's the prize, who thinks she's the table, the whole package. But you can't take constructive criticism about your behaviour, attitude or appearance, that man isn't choosing you. They don't want to deal with games. They don't want emotional tantrums when things don't go your way. They want peace, discipline, maturity and accountability. And here's something I think more women should do. If you have a list of everything you want in your ideal man, loyal, disciplined, hard working, provider mindset, protective, emotionally stable. Make another list of the kind of woman that man would actually choose. Then take a brutally honest look at yourself. And I mean really honest. Like strip naked emotionally, physically and spiritually. Don't look at the version of yourself you describe to your friends. I'm talking about the real one. Because a lot of people say they have standards, but they never ask themselves if they meet the standards of the person they want. And that's usually where the problem is.